By Steve Legg
If I’m honest, I don’t really understand why anyone wouldn’t support the rights of women. There’s more depth to the debate than that, of course; but on one level, what kind person doesn’t treat everyone with respect?
The thing is, I love women. Let me qualify that: I’m a dad
raising five women, a husband partnered by a simply brilliant woman, and I was
raised by the first women I ever loved – my mum. Each of these women is amazing
in their unique way and I love to watch them reach their potential; to grow and
develop and aim high. I don’t like to see them boxed in by other people’s
opinions, ignored because they’re ‘just women’ or leered at, because alongside
being outstanding they happen to be stunners.
As a Christian I’ve chosen to follow a God who, when he came
to earth as a man, went out of his way to honour women, who respected them
regardless of their background, marital status or profession, and who empowered
women to go out and change the worlds they lived in, even though culturally
that was incomprehensible. Jesus loved women too.
I run a men’s magazine, Sorted,
and I started it because I wanted my son and his mates to be able to read a magazine
that wasn’t full of semi-naked women. I wanted him to understand that reading
about footballers is entertaining and that learning about great adventurers is
exciting, but that getting kicks out of looking at naked women is offensive.
I wanted to reach more men and boys with that message, but I
also wanted the women in my life to know that there are men who want that type
of magazine; who aren’t just buying their ‘reading’ material for the pictures.
Some great women write for the magazine, and they’re appreciated for their
journalism skills and their wit, not for their vital statistics.
From the beginning, I’ve wanted to take on the magazines
that objectify women: Loaded and Nuts being two of my particular bugbears.
It has been amazing to watch Sorted’s
circulation rise as theirs have dropped. We now distribute more magazines than Loaded.
There have been many campaigns
to boycott these magazines, but I think it sends an even louder message to the
market when the ‘boobs, babes and bums free’ magazine overtakes the smut
through a process of natural selection.
I want to encourage men to be men – to learn how to be good
dads, husbands, brothers and friends – and at the heart of that is the lesson
of how to live in what I believe is a God-ordained equal partnership with
women.
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ReplyDeleteA really good article Steve. As you say, why wouldn't any Christian man not want to support women? The magazine's great! Keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteIn the end, we should respect all people and believe in equality for all. That simplifies everything.
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